«وچين عمر جي بحران — a topic that cannot but be of interest, — the existential psychologist Svetlana Krivtsova is sure. — Many of us at the age of 30-45 begin a difficult period of discord with life and ourselves. Paradox: at the peak of vitality, we find ourselves at a point where we don’t want to live as before, but in a new way it doesn’t work out yet or there is no clarity about this new life. What I want and who I really am are the main questions of the crisis. Someone doubts whether it is worth continuing the work that is being obtained. Why? Because «it’s not mine.» We used to be inspired by challenging tasks, but now we suddenly realize that we should not do everything we can. And that the biggest challenge is to find your own path and your own size. And this needs to be decided.
الينا ساپوگووا، ڊاڪٽر آف سائڪالاجيءَ، لکي ٿو ته وڏي ٿيڻ جو عمل ڏکن سان جڙيل آهي، فڪر جي نقصان جي تلخيءَ سان، ان لاءِ جرئت جي ضرورت آهي. شايد اهو ئي سبب آهي جو اڄ به ڪيترا اهڙا آهن جيڪي وڏا ٿي ويا آهن، پر پختا نه ٿيا آهن؟ اهي وقت اسان کي بالغ ٿيڻ جي ضرورت ناهي، صرف نرمي سان هڪ عکاس ۽ ذميوار زندگي گذارڻ لاء. اڄ، سماج جي پابندين کان سواء، توهان ڪم نه ڪري سگهو ٿا، ڪنهن جي ذميواري نه ٿا ڪري سگهو، پاڻ کي ڪنهن به شيء ۾ سيڙپڪاري نه ڪريو، ۽ ساڳئي وقت زندگي ۾ چڱي طرح ترتيب ڏيو..
ذاتي پختگي جو قدر ڇا آهي؟ And how to come to that very adulthood that will allow you to live meaningfully? The book approaches these topics gradually. First, simple but interesting information about growing up and the criteria for maturity for the reader, who, perhaps, never thought that the changes taking place in his soul have a scientific definition. At the end — refined and refined «delicacies» for gourmets of self-reflection. Wise reflections of Merab Mamardashvili and Alexander Pyatigorsky about what true self-care is. And a motley bouquet of real client stories. The territory of adulthood is addressed to a wide range of readers. And for specialists, I can recommend a voluminous monograph by the same author, Existential Psychology of Adulthood (Sense, 2013).”
Svetlana Krivtsova, director of the International Institute for Existential Counseling and Training (MIEKT), psychoanalyst, author of books, one of them — «How to find harmony with yourself and the world» (Genesis, 2004).
پيدائش، 320 ص، 434 روبل.