"جديد پيار": جهڙوڪ اهو آهي

What do an eccentric lawyer with bipolar disorder and an ambitious dating app creator have in common? A «bookworm» and a pregnant homeless woman? An elderly man who buried his beloved wife six years ago, and a girl desperately longing for a fatherly caress she never knew?

All of them are residents of New York, beautiful, diverse, multinational. And each of them once became the hero of the column «Modern love» in the daily newspaper The New York Times. In the 15th year of its existence, based on the best letters received by the editors, a series was shot.

In the first season, there were eight episodes — about dates on which something went wrong (or absolutely everything went wrong). About the inability to open up to another out of fear that we will never be accepted as we are, which means that we are doomed to eternal loneliness.

حقيقت اها آهي ته اڪثر بالغن ۾ رشتي ۾، اسان ڪوشش ڪندا آهيون ته اسان کي ننڍپڻ ۾ حاصل نه ڪيو وڃي، ۽ انهي صورت ۾ اهو صحيح ٿيندو ته اهو پاڻ کي ايمانداري سان تسليم ڪيو وڃي.

شادين جي باري ۾ جيڪي لڳي ٿو بچاء کان ٻاهر. وڃايل موقعن ۽ اڻڄاتل پيارن بابت. اهو احساس عمر جي حدن کي نٿو ڄاڻي، صنف جي تقسيم کي سڃاڻي نٿو.

پيار رومانس ۽ جنس کان وڏو ۽ زندگي کان ڊگهو آهي.

۽ ڪوئي فرق ناهي ته ماڻهو هن حقيقت جي باري ۾ ڇا چوندا آهن ته اڄ اڪثر گهڻو ڪري بعد ۾ رشتي شروع ڪرڻ يا اڪيلو رهڻ پسند ڪن ٿا، يا عام طور تي طلاق جا انگ اکر شادي جي اهڙي واقعي تي شڪ ڪن ٿا، اهو ظاهر آهي ته اسان سڀني کي اڃا تائين پيار جي ضرورت آهي.

Perhaps in a slightly different form than before. Perhaps without the exchange of vows and pathetic «…until death do you part» (and maybe with them). Such a different, unpredictable, strange modern love.